Thursday, May 28, 2009

farewell, lei


*from left to right: bernice, lei, adel, me and dini*


i realized that i don't post entries with pictures lately, so i was contemplating on which story i could post... i never thought and expected that this would be it...

she was lei to others, lani to some, lakambini to all of us. leilani zabella never fails to make us smile with her simple quirks and her happy disposition is infectious.

she was tall, morena, has long shiny hair and a bright smile. she belonged to another section, but we instantly clicked when we first met as freshmen from siena qc. she's so down to earth... even if she belongs to the upper class, she won't mind having an average person as a friend. our birthdays are 2 days apart, it usually falls on our school fair during which we would pay the announcement booth to greet each other on air.

after high school, we drifted apart... i never heard much from her until we were graduating in college. thanks to friendster, we got connected once again. and from there, we got back to our yearly tradition of greeting each other on our birthdays. and when we got a chance last september to see each other in LA, we were both thrilled. we joined the other girls for dinner and were able to catch up.

today, my friend hya informed me that lei is gone... it didn't sink in because i was busy at work. during lunch time i went back to our photos in multiply. and i can't help but feel the loss so deep in my heart. she has so many dreams, she has so many things to accomplish, she has yet to get wed. she was 30years old... i love you lei. you will definitely be missed.

*life is so short... shorter for others. that's why we should cherish life and love. we should try our hardest to express our love towards people who matter in our lives.*


3 comments:

sindhie said...

hello aslee. Lani's my cousin and i just realized that i havent been logging on to friendster and she is not my friendster friend. I felt very very sad about the news as I am in Singapore-based and learned about it only today.Thus i googled her and your blog came up. And it means so much to me to see her smiling photo on your blog.She is badly missed.

cinderela

Anonymous said...

she looks like patty laurel on the pic. such a beauty to pass... may her soul rest in peace.

passerby.. :)

Unknown said...

@sindhie: im also sg-based. i felt so blessed to have been her friend.

@passerby: yes, she definitely is. thanks for dropping by. :)