they start giving mixed signals. one moment, they'd want you to sit and eat with them during meal times. or they'd ask you to read them bed time stories and put them to sleep. the next thing you know, they are pulling away...
they would tell you, "mum, its ok, i can do it myself". they could button their own shirt, tie their own shoelaces, make their own milk, brush their teeth, bathe themselves, choose what they want to wear.
when you tell them, "i love you my little baby!", you will get an answer, "i'm not so little and not a baby anymore.".
and they would start distancing themselves when you walk around the mall. they could mingle and make friends on their own during parties and gatherings. i have mixed feelings... i am proud that they are confident and independent. but somehow sad and scared that they can be on their own and that sooner, i wouldn't really matter much.
i'm taking all the best i can right now: all the hugs, kisses, holding hands, embraces, home works together. hopeful that it wouldn't end too soon.
3 comments:
Huhuhu ganyan din mga girls ko, eldest ko nga ayaw na tumabi sa amin matulog, sanay na daw sya mag-isa sa room nya. :(
About the books pala, has your sons read Wonder by R.J. Palacio. Heartwarming and fit talaga for their age. :D
thanks mami s! i will check out his books =) regards to your girls and dadi m!
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